yeah, could have told you that.

exactly what i would have said… and the results all being within one or two of each other… yep… that’s me

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results

Quality Time: 8
Physical Touch: 7
Receiving Gifts: 7
Words of Affirmation: 5
Acts of Service: 3


Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don’t understand our partner’s requirements, or even our own. We all have a “love tank” that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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it’s amazing how sleep helps

i find it amazing how 30 minutes of sleep can help refresh me… at least enough that I don’t feel like i’m going to burst into tears or throw up every 5 seconds… definately NOT happy go lucky, but feeling much better than earlier today… i’m going to be glad when this week is over…

i’m not looking forward to april and early may… i hope that changes

short blog for the day

so here’s my short blog for the day… i’m going to go take a nap in my car over lunch… i did actually get some sleep last night, but my eyes were swollen shut when i woke up and aren’t much better now… got some sad news affecting some of my small group girls last night and some stressful news concerning my family today… on top of already being sad… yeah… i’ve got to stop being so empathetic… there’s nothing wrong with me and I’m sad… it’s not healthy… i need to compartmentalize, but it seems like i’m not getting a breath inbetween…..

randomness for the day

Yes, I do have a minute to do some random stuff for the day… not much but a little… so…

the road behind the credit union goes in a circle. I wanted to listen to some music today while I ate my lunch, so i cooked my lunch, got in my car and decided I was going to drive around (because it was a little cold)… i started driving on the road and i never had to stop, it was just a circle… that was fun… good news is that i think i’ve found my song for our small group thing tonight… i’ve narrowed it down to two, so that’s good 🙂

on a different note, we’ve been a bit slow today, (though all evidence to the contrary right now… people keep looking at me strangely because I’m sitting at my computer with my window closed… but there you go), and since i’m tired, that is not a good thing (being slow that is)… i can’t count the number of times i’ve yawned on the phone with a member.

hum… what other random stuff can i tell ya’ll… my life is seriously not that interesting… i had an emotional weekend… i think i was alone too much… which is funny to say since i hung out with people both friday and saturday night… but by saturday night i think the contrast might have been too much… no people at all to lots of people that i felt i needed to get it together in front of, so… there you go… but i know this boy who was really sweet and went and found this girl because i was sad and he couldn’t really talk to me about it… and that helped alot 🙂

let’s see… what else… had a good time last night laughing at steak and shake… can’t remember everything that was funny… could be exhaustion played into it 🙂 I can’t believe it’s April at the end of the week… reminds me that my roomie’s birthday is on Saturday! that’d be a good thing for me to remember… there you go… april is going to be a busy month, i know… trying to figure out what that’s going to look like…. i want to try to go to spear’s jazz night on the 8th as i missed madrigals… sarah mccleary’s shower is that day, too… she’s having lots of people stay over that weekend… and sarah b. is having a sleep over with her small group members… so there you go… i want to have a sleep over… there you go…

hum…. okay… i think that’s it for right now… i’m back on work in 6 minutes, so i should get off here now… is everyone satisfied with the update or are there more opinions from the peanut gallery…

posting this week

Yeah, so i apparently have the best intentions of being able to post this week, but i’m not sure it’s going to happen… i didn’t even get home until after 12:00 last night, and I’m expecting that’s going to be more of the rule and not the exception this week… I’m sorry ya’ll…

they probably wouldn’t be very fun blogs anyway… at least not today… i’m a bit sad… friends are going through hardships in their families right now, whether b/c of family with disease or just difficult family relations… i didn’t sleep well because of bad dreams last night… i’m nervous (and trying not to get too excited or raise hopes to high) about a job prospect for which i’m applying… and it’s just a super busy week… so… there you have it…

if i get some more free time later i may try to post more light hearted random stuff… but don’t count on it…


I realize I haven’t posted in a long time (thank you friends for pointing that out)… so random ramblings for the day…

I wonder if infrequent postings is going to become more of the norm for me… after I move out of Sarah’s I won’t have access to a computer at home… since I use her computer and don’t own one of my own. I’m also not suppossed to work online like this at work (I’m on my lunch and the IT person is waiting to work on my computer now, too)… so that’s my randomness for right now… i do have more ramblings, but those are going to have to wait… as Sarah (the IT person, yes there are tons of Sarahs in the world) is waiting… tata